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How it works

You apply, we review, you complete a private assessment, and then you meet a few people chosen for how well you fit.

  1. Apply (about 4 minutes)

    Tell us a few basics, add two photos and share how to reach you on LINE or email. It is free, needs no account, and your answers save on your device as you go.

  2. We review (within 2 working days)

    A matchmaker reads every application. We check that each guest is single, aged 35–55, and here for something real, and that the evening will be balanced for everyone. You hear from us on LINE and email.

  3. Secure your place

    If you are approved, we send a payment link. Event entry is 2,590 baht (about US$75) and includes your Compatibility Passport. You never pay before approval.

  4. Complete your private assessment (about 25 minutes)

    We email you a personal link. The assessment looks at what you want from a relationship, how you connect and what matters most to you. It saves as you go, so you can pause and come back.

  5. We choose who you meet

    Our matching looks for people who are likely to suit you, and a matchmaker checks the result. You are introduced to a small number of people, not a room full of strangers.

  6. Meet in person

    Come to a hosted evening in Bangkok. A host guides the conversations so you can relax and get to know each person properly.

  7. After the event

    You tell us who you would like to see again. Where the interest is mutual, we make the introduction. Your Compatibility Passport stays with you.

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Why we do it this way

Research on lasting relationships points to the same few things again and again: wanting the same kind of relationship, sharing core values, and handling disagreement well. Chemistry matters too, but it is hard to judge in a two-minute chat. So we use the assessment to find people who are likely to suit you, and the evening to see whether the spark is really there.

We are open about the limits. No questionnaire can promise love, so a matchmaker always reviews the result, and the evening is where you decide.

Privacy at every step

Only our matchmaking team sees your application, assessment answers and photos. They are never shared with third parties and never shown to other applicants without your permission. Read the privacy policy or write to soulmates@matchandmeet.life.

Last updated 13 October 2026.