Men ♡ Men
- Date
- 14 November 2026
- Time
- 17:00–21:30 Bangkok time
- Where
- MESH Hotel - Sukhumvit 22
- Entry
- THB 2,590 or US$75
Includes your Compatibility Passport. You pay only after your application is approved.
Apply for Men ♡ MenBangkok · Compatibility-led matchmaking
Connect sophisticated hearts.
A thoughtful path to meaningful connection for people who value depth, intention and compatibility. Understand what matters to you, discover people who may be a strong fit, and choose where the relationship goes.
Next event: Men ♡ Men · 14 November 2026 · MESH Hotel - Sukhumvit 22
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Women ♡ Women
- Date
- 21 November 2026
- Time
- 17:00–21:30 Bangkok time
- Where
- MESH Hotel - Sukhumvit 22
- Entry
- THB 2,590 or US$75
Includes your Compatibility Passport. You pay only after your application is approved.
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- Date
- 28 November 2026
- Time
- 17:00–21:30 Bangkok time
- Where
- MESH Hotel - Sukhumvit 22
- Entry
- THB 2,590 or US$75
Includes your Compatibility Passport. You pay only after your application is approved.
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- Date
- Date to be announced
- Where
- Bangkok, venue to be announced
- Entry
- 2,590 baht (about US$75)
Includes your Compatibility Passport. You pay only after your application is approved.
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Who we are
Connecting people meaningfully again.
MATCH & MEET is a compatibility-led matchmaking service, founded in Bangkok, for single, accomplished people aged 35–55 who are ready for a committed relationship. We believe love has no boundaries, which is why we host dedicated evenings for gay men, for women who love women, and for straight singles.
Our approach brings together psychology and research on what keeps real couples together. Every introduction is shortlisted by our compatibility matching and then handpicked by a matchmaker, so you meet the people you are most likely to connect with.
Not an app. Not speed dating.
A typical dating app
- You sort through endless profiles
- Photos and swiping lead
- Mostly online, with no host
Typical speed dating
- Many very short introductions
- Pairing is mostly by chance
- Hard to go beyond a first impression
MATCH & MEET
- A small number of longer conversations
- People chosen for compatibility and reviewed by a matchmaker
- Hosted in person, with privacy built in
How it works
Four steps, no surprises.
Apply in about four minutes
A few basics, two photos and how to reach you. It is free.
We review your application
A matchmaker reads every one, within two working days.
If approved, secure your place and complete your private assessment
You pay only after approval. The assessment takes about 25 minutes and saves as you go.
Meet people who may suit you
A hosted evening, with a few real conversations with people chosen for fit.
The matching
Seven areas of compatibility.
A lasting relationship needs more than a spark. Research on couples who stay together points to seven areas that matter most. Your private assessment looks at each one, so we can see where two people are likely to fit well and where they may need to meet in the middle.
Tap an area to see what we look at.
Emotional fit
How each of you gives and receives care, and how you handle feelings together.
Communication
How you talk, listen and work through disagreements without drifting apart.
Values and direction
What you believe in, and where you each want your life to go.
Practical plans
Home, money, family and the future you would build side by side.
Lifestyle
Your daily rhythm, social life and how you like to spend your time.
Intimacy
Closeness, affection and physical connection, and what each of you needs.
Attraction
The spark. We include it, but it is never allowed to outweigh the rest.
How we use them to choose who you meet
Your non-negotiables
The things that must be true for a relationship to work for you come first.
Relationship fit
How well you fit across the seven areas above.
What matters most to you
You tell us which areas count most, so the introductions reflect your priorities.
A matchmaker’s review
A person checks the result before anyone is introduced.
How the areas are weighed stays private. Then a matchmaker checks every shortlist and decides who you meet.
Your Compatibility Passport
A private portrait of how you connect.
After your private assessment, you receive your Compatibility Passport: a personal report that puts into words how you approach love and partnership. It shows how strongly each of the seven areas comes through for you, and once you are introduced, where the two of you are likely to see things alike and where it is worth talking things through.
- What you want from a relationship, in words you recognise.
- How you tend to connect, and what often matters most to you.
- The kinds of people you may fit with, and why.
- Conversation topics worth exploring on a first meeting.
A starting point for conversation. It is not a prediction or a verdict.
Sample Passport · illustration only
Compatibility Passport
How you connect
YouYour introduction
Your answers suggest you both value openness and shared direction, so first conversations may feel easy. You may differ in how you like to spend everyday life and how far ahead you plan, which is worth talking about early.
Invented example, not a real person. Each point shows how strongly that area comes through in someone’s answers: nearer the edge means stronger. Where the shapes overlap, you are likely to see things in a similar way. It is a guide for conversation, not a score or a prediction.
What we can promise
Honest about what we offer.
- A more thoughtful introduction, based on compatibility.
- A well-run, hosted evening.
- Clear privacy boundaries.
- No promise of chemistry or a relationship. Nobody honestly can.
Your privacy
What you share stays with us.
- Your assessment answers are private.
- Your photos are seen only by our matchmaking team, and nothing is shown to other applicants without your permission.
- You do not pay before you are approved.
- You can ask to see, correct or delete your data at any time.
Ready to meet differently?
Applying takes about four minutes and costs nothing. You pay only if you are approved.
Questions? Write to soulmates@matchandmeet.life